How to develop a winning attitude or having a winning attitude
“Winning is fun…. Sure. But winning is not the point. Wanting to win is the point. Not giving up is the point. Never letting up is the point. Never being satisfied with what you’ve done is the point.” —Pat Summit
Attitude is different for different people, it defines you. The winning attitude in a person or human means that they have the positivity in themselves, that one day they will win or simply they think that they can do it.
Winning attitude does not mean that they will definitely win, it just means that they will give their 100 % to the task and will put all the efforts required to win. Because of this their percentage of winning increases.
This attitude comes from within, nobody can force you to get this winning attitude. This is a positive attitude that helps you go on the correct path and to attain your objectives or we can say it guides you on which road to be taken to win in a race without thinking of shortcuts and going by all honesty you have. You always try to win if your frame of mind is set to win, you will automatically start thinking in that direction only and get through the winning steps very comfortable and easily without any form of negativity in you.
To develop a good attitude in yourself, you can read one famous book by John Maxwell “winning with people” you can buy that book at Winning with people
The most important factor to grow successfully is by keeping the right mindset and positive attitude which will lead you to become a winner one day. For winning one has to go through the path of failure and rejection but you have to positively go through them. Success will make you go through many obstacles and hurdles but you have to jump through them without slipping and making yourself even stronger when you jump through them the next time. When you make up your mind and keep a hard-working attitude, the win will automatically come following your way. Your attitude defines your success and win.
Here are 11 ways to understand how to develop a winning attitude in yourself.-
Never give up on things easily
The most important factor to get a winning attitude is when you don’t give up on things; you never want to lose on them. Even if you fall, you again stand strong to fight again with extra efforts and hard work than earlier. “Giving up is the same as failure which you should never do for yourself”.
Many people give up very easily. One tough situation comes and they lose hope of winning. One must learn to develop never die attitude. You can develop this attitude by reading: How to develop never die attitude.
Face rejection every time as it is a part of life
Never avoid or ignore on things in which you got rejected or failed, put more extra in it and involve more in it to get it the next time you go for it. “rejection can never judge you how hardworking and passionate you are but you are losing on things because you got rejected will surely make you a failure.
Many people lose how of winning just after one or two setbacks. Rejection and failure are stepping stones toward success not the tombstone. Many of us lose hope of winning because they have a fear of failure. So with this fear either they put efforts halfheartedly or don’t attempt only. If you want to overcome the fear of failure then you can read: How to overcome the fear of failure.
Surround yourself with who can help you with this attitude
Your circle or group with which you are on a daily basis, play a vital role in your growth. When you are around people who have the same winning attitude as yours then you will feel competition with them. You will have the motivation to be the best among all and they will also admire you. In this way, you will be helped by their company and effortless you will be able to develop the winning attitude. “your circle makes you grow”.
We learn in two ways one by meeting people and another by reading books. When we surround ourselves with people who have a good winning attitude then we will also learn from them. We should have a good friend with whom we can grow. If you want to know the qualities of a good friend then you can read the Qualities of a good friend.
Prepare before getting on to something
You cannot achieve something if you don’t practice for it because nothing comes easy in your life. You need to give your time and attention to get to your goal. When you are fully prepared for it, go for it, and then you don’t need to be scared. “ prepare for your goals for a long time and not just a day or two before it because no magic can make you win in a night”.
Many times we become lazy and don’t put enough effort to achieve our goal. To achieve anything we have to put the required effort. If you want to learn how to work hard to achieve anything then you can read: How to be a hard worker.
Trust yourself even if you fall
Believing yourself is a must even when people around you do not trust you, your choices should be the priority for you because you are the best teacher to yourself, take suggestions from your parents and friends who truly want you to win but consider your decision as to the topmost.
We must be very confident in what we are doing. One we are confident we will start believing in ourselves. If you want to learn how to be confident then you can read: How to be confident.
Keep good health
You need to have a peaceful mind and good health by which you can reach your goals easily, without any disturbance from your health side. Give time to your body to relax and give time to leisure activities, your hobbies which will make your body relaxed from the work pressure.
If you want to learn how to be healthy then you can read: How to live a healthy lifestyle.
Set a mindset to win
The people with negative attitudes and thinking will surely fail because they do not think themselves capable of achieving something. Because with that thinking they will not be able to give their 100%. Chances of winning arises when we give out best efforts. When we think positive then we work with positive energy and will give our 100%.
Now how to develop positive thinking? To develop positive thinking you can read this article: How to develop positive thinking.
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Be positive to handle your failures
Your failure is just a stepping stone, not a tombstone, it makes you concentrate more for your goal because when you fail the first time you don’t have anything to lose when trying for the next time and because of that zeal, you will stand more confident and stronger than ever before. Make your mind handle your failure as a part of the step to winning.
We must be able to handle failure positively. To develop positive thinking you can read this article: How to develop positive thinking.
Do not let anybody judge you for your decisions
Take out time for yourself, stand in front of the mirror and talk to yourself or introspect within you, and find what is wrong and right for you and then make decisions for your life. When you make such choices they are the best and don’t let anybody judge you for this or criticize you because you have taken the decisions for yourself. Never let anybody judge you and affect you at this level that you start doubting yourself.
We all have many negative people around us who say negative things to ourselves. We must know how to handle these negative people. You can read this article: How to handle negative people.
Don’t compare your work with others
When you compare yourself with others you degrade yourself in front of people around you, why can’t you stand strong and feel that you are best and you do not have any comparison. We must try to be better than ourselves every day. We must work only on improving ourselves. Comparison with others just demoralizes us if we are thinking that another person is better or we go into overconfidence if we think that we are better than others.
The best way to compare is to compare you you were yesterday and whether you have improved or not. In this case you will not be either demoralize or become overconfident. If you want to stop comparing yourself with others than you can read: How to stop comparing.
Do not copy others to make yourself better, be your-self –
You are the best version of yourself; do not degrade it by copying others. You can admire others if you feel they are better and then make yourself better than them but never push yourself to be like somebody else. Trust yourself that you can win and you are best and then see, people will themselves come to you. You will feel the best that way because
you are yourself not someone whom you may have admired once.
Everyone is different and they do things differently. One has to find out the best way for themselves and then try to work on their strength and become best in that. This is the only way to win. IF we think that we must do like someone else then we can never be better then them. That is why we see all the best players are different they don’t copy others, they play their natural game.
If you want to develop your own strength then you can read how to be innovative.
Winning is not as easy as we think, it demands hard work, dedication, and time. You cannot win just by thinking, you have to patiently work on it and make it your priority above everything. Your steps through winning may also demand many sacrifices from you but you have to choose between your successes or get distracted from it but it demands a lot, to be at a good position or at the winning stage.
You just need to stand stiff for your objective and when you stand there is no going back from it, because that stepping back will be considered as you fail in it, and may you regret it forever. Trying for everything you want will never make you lose if you have the winning attitude but it surely makes you win one day because you tried endlessly, for it so many times.
The winner is inside you, sitting somewhere in the corner of your heart, just try loving it and see the magic when it loves you back and always remember that winning comes with positive thinking and not negative thoughts. You will win because you can and you are no less than anybody around you.
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