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Understanding why people abuse and why people go along with it.

Understanding why people abuse and why people go along with it.

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Why Do People Abuse?

The primary issue, “Why do people abuse other people?” has various answers. Some abusers discovered abuse from their parents. Their early chronicles consisted of getting abuse themselves and/or viewing others injured (one parent abusing the other or their sibling, etc.). As a result, abuse is the natural position of life for these characters. Such people internalized a distinct connection active, particularly the equal roles of “abuser” and “victim”.

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They are accustomed to and completely agree on the terror of being the invalid victim from their youth participation. The contrast of being a victim is not just opting out of harm; it is preferably, to be abusive. Given the option between being the out-of-control sacrifice or the in-control abuser, some of these characters grow up to favour the role of the abuser.

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As they grow adults, they just turn this link active around and start working out the “abuser” side of the connection dynamic they have acquired. By wanting to be the aggressor and abuser, they may get their initial sense of gaining control over their condition and not being at the compassion of others. That they injured others in the method may go unregistered or only transpire as a dim part of their consciousness.

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Offensive action can also occur from mental health issues or diseases. For instance, someone with anger management issues, a determination of periodic explosive disorder, or a drinking or drug problem may simply get out of power during discussions (e.g., because there is something amiss with their capacity to inhibit themselves at the genius level) and orally or physically beat out at their companions and dependents.

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Still, other characters who hurt end up hurting because they have a compassion deficit, either because of any sort of brain illness or because they were so hurt themselves as kids that their innate empathic skills never explained properly. Such abusers cannot or will not compare to other people as people, preferring instead to handle them as things.

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Why Do Adults Stay In Abusive Relationships?

The second issue, “Why Do Adults Stay In Abusive Relationships?” is also moderately complex to know. Associates in abusive associations have diverse reasons for persisting in them. The first layer of the purposes for lingering in an offensive relationship is possible, even if they are not perpetually rational. Some hurt people think they cannot neglect their connections because they are economically reliant on them.

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For example, an exhausted stay-at-home mom may feel that she cannot bequeath her brutal relationship because if she did, she would have no way of catering for her children. Other hurt people stay because they believe that is the proper thing to do, given their spiritual or cultural history. Some characters, for instance, believe that separation is a bad thing to be shunned at most all costs.

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They may be excited to put up with a lot of spousal hurts because the alternative is to go against the teachings of their church. Still, other abused people may rationalize staying in abusive relationships because they think it is the right thing to do for their children. They might say to themselves, “If it was just me, I’d leave this marriage, but my children will be better off coming from an intact home than from a divorced one”.

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This may not be a rational position to take in all cases; the children may be far more damaged by staying in proximity to an abusive father than they would be by being raised by a single mother. However, regardless of the truth of any of these rationalizations, the belief that they are true is more powerful than whether or not they are true.

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The second layer of motivations for why somebody stays in abusive relationships is revealed by studying the so-called “cycle of abuse.” In a typical instance of domestic abuse (where one partner is abusive towards the other), harm tends to occur regularly (cyclically), rather than regularly (all the time).

There is no clear origin to the cycle of abuse, but for purposes of describing it, we can start at an arbitrary stage along with its progression. Something event occurs, whether real or only imagined by the abuser, that generates feelings of anger or even rage. These feelings then lead to the second stage of the cycle, which is where the actual abusive behaviour occurs.

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Such behaviour may be verbal, physical, emotional/mental, or sexual. If the cycle stopped here and stayed constant, most victims would find it very easy to leave and not endure abuse for long periods. However, shortly after the abusive event occurs, the abuser frequently expresses remorse or guilt and wants to apologize.

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The abuser will swear, “It will never happen again” and may shower the victim with gifts and demands that the victim forgive him or her. There may be so-called “makeup sex” which can be quite pleasurable and provide the victim with a sense that he or she is valued and loved. In a parent/child abusive relationship, guilt over abuse may be expressed as special privileges or gifts for the child victim.

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Following the guilt and making up stage comes a “honeymoon” or latency period during which things are good for a while between the partners. Inevitably, in truly abusive relationships, the latency period ends with the beginning of another abuse episode; the abuser again feels angry, disrespected or treated poorly in some way and the cycle starts all over again.

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Though such cyclical abuse is constant and expected, it is also interrupted, and the rest of the connection might be regarded as good enough or even loving. In this connection, victims often reason that they aren’t being hurt, that their companion loves them despite being that makes it okay, that the abuse isn’t all that bad, and other similar statements.

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Victims are motivated to generate excuses for their abuser, to think of each abuse episode as a “one-time” thing (even when it isn’t), and to focus on the good aspects of the relationship (particularly those positive things that during the guilt/latency phase of the abuse cycle) and convince themselves that the relationship is a good one and that everyone has some problems in a relationship, i.e., my partner just occasionally loses his/her temper when stressed at work, etc. Or for those with poor self-esteem, the rationalizations may be thoughts such as “I don’t deserve any better” or “this is the best relationship I’ve had in my life.”

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Victims may have any number of low-self-esteem type beliefs that also keep them paralyzed and willing to accept something that is merely “good enough.” They may believe that they will be alone forever if they go out on their own. They may believe that they are so damaged that they would only pick another abusive partner anyway so why not stay with this one? They may believe that they don’t deserve any better than to be beaten or raped on a semi-regular basis. Abusers may reinforce this lack of self-worth by saying that abuse is normal, that they are over-reacting.

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