‘My parents scold me for no reason’ – Here’s what you have to do.
In our day-to-day life, we always come to certain situations in which we did something wrong without realizing and parents called us for that. It is normal and we should learn to respect and tolerate and learn from that scolding. This will help us in future life and also in adulthood.
Teenagers are always aggressive towards their parents and they think that everything their parents usually tell or make them learn is scolding. Teenagers have their stage and they go through that but if you think that your parents scold you way too much and for way, minimal things such as giving you use pressure for the things that are out of your control or they are irritated with you every single time you pass by that is a serious problem.
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In that case, we should always look for a getaway so that our mental health is not ruined but also we should always remember that they are our parents and we should not hurt them at any cost. We should always learn from their scolding no matter how much they scold us, how much the pressure rises because that’s our responsibility but without damaging our mental health at any cost.
We are important and we will always be important for our parents they may not realize it now but they will realize it later. As we see small kids who get too many scolding are rather too aggressive and impatient also easily irritated or are too scared to ask anything and very timid.
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These are the examples residing in our society which we can easily recognize and we should always protect ourselves from this because good mental health always benefits us in the future. Parents usually scold us because of the pressure they are having because they are liable for us and our future.
Hence we will present to you in this article what are the clever ways to avoid scolding and what to do if parents scold you too much.
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1. Always try to avoid arguments.
As your parents cannot understand you will have to understand to some extent that it will become worse if you try to argue with your parents. Always try to look for an alternative way. Arguments will hurt your parents and you too, affecting both of your mental health.
2. Always try to be clear and straight-forward
I know it will be difficult and becomes a very difficult task to be straightforward in front of the parents who are strict and scold you for everything because they will have a problem with everything, but you should develop courage and tell your parents beforehand that this is what you want to do.
Discussing it will make some or other arguments but at last, your parents will be satisfied that you are sharing everything with your parents giving them full control as they want. This will avoid any further heated-up argument.
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If you practice this habit frequently after some time you will see that your parents are trusting you easily. The scolding and the uneasiness because of insecurity that you would do anything wrong will come down and this will also help you to get the point about what you want to do in the future from another perspective.
3. Do not try to sneak out or try anything that disappoints them
Never try something sneaky that is wrong. You may sneak out of your house if are going for some important work and they are stopping it because that cause will be supported by the society and others that you dared to overcome you are parents doing something great. But it is not a good idea to party outside and making out while your parents are trusting you when they are already filled with anxiety and insecurity. This will only increase a heated argument and you may never be allowed to go out of your house again.
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4. If you are good at something then make sure your parents know about it
Some of the children think that our parents anyway don’t care about us and scold us anyway, so what will be the use of telling our hidden talent to them. And what will happen if they know our talents they will definitely stop us from doing that and they will always tell us to follow academics seriously. Well, that’s not the case every time.
In this case, the judgment will be a bit tricky as you have to pick up hints. If your parents are constantly telling you that XYZ has kids who are good at everything from academics to curriculum and you can’t even perform well in academics then show your parents your good point and I am sure that they will be proud of you.
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But if your parents don’t think anything outside the academic or don’t have a core curriculum background then it’s risky, better be prepared to have a long road ahead of yourself where you will have to push on your own but you should try to do better in academic and try to negotiate with your parents that if I do well in academic you should let me do my co-curricular well. This will also improve your mental health as you can now focus on your side hobbies.
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5. Divert your aggressiveness to useful things
I know it’s very hard to divert your anger to something useful but have you seen those heartbroken people who work out in the gym getting the best result yes that’s what motivation of anger does to you. You should always concentrate your bad energy on good energy so that you are busy making your life well by stabilizing your mental health and not concentrating on your parents scolding.
This will also better the situation as you will become the better you and these scolding will go less day by day. I know it is hard but this will also save you from many troubles as you will develop your side hobbies with your personality which will improve your patience. Trust me this is the best way to calm down.
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6. Make a diary
If your parents are always at the back of you scolding you for your academic and to study without giving you the scope of meeting your side hobby then the best way is to create a diary when your parents scold you or you have arguments with them. Write up all the feelings in your diary or on a piece of paper and also make sure that no one finds them or burns the paper that time itself.
If you are good at writing, you can skillfully crave your feelings into great writings which will be helpful for you to act as a gateway for your emotions.
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7. Never bottle up your emotions till last
Holding a grudge is not good. Let go of your feelings as they are your parents and they are the reason you are here today. So you have no right to have a grudge against them and doing something harmful or hurting to them. Always try converting your feeling into positive energy which can help you protect your mental health and is beneficial to you.
8. Listen to music
The most common getaway is that you can listen to music to calm down your mind and protect your mental health without hurting yourself. Music is a soothing treatment that can help you in several different ways. Classical music is best that does not promote any violence-related feelings and help you to calm you and put you through deep sleep. Try listening 1 today.
Try out these tips. All the above steps mentioned will work a hundred percent and your parents will understand that you have your mental health and your own life. They will understand that the pressure they give you for the things that are out of your control is not good.
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