HOW TO DEVELOP HUMILITY or HOW TO BE HUMBLE or HOW TO BE MODEST
Humility means being modest, humble, and egoless. Being humble is a virtue that is mostly found in great and very successful individuals. A humble individual treats everyone with respect and in return get lot of respect. A humble person is always down to earth.
Humility means to attribute, humble that makes you special from others. Sometimes people see it as a dismissive quality and think of a humble person as powerless. But the humble person is more powerful mentally. Being humble aid to develop trust and a good learning attitude, which are the key aspect of management and distinctive improvement. The important thing is being genuine with yourself. If you do not change yourself then how will you show the impact on society? And a humble person always tries to improve himself.
The person who has a deficit of humility is arrogant. There are various kinds of persons who think themselves superior and greater than others. They never can improve themselves because they cannot see their flaws. If a person is not humble, they also do not have a growth mindset. The great personality in the world still do mistakes and learns from them. The coach, tutorial still have much to learn about their duties not as a teacher but as a student. If a person did not see his weakness, then he does not have the potential to make a growth in life. As we all know that life is all about learning.
DID WE EVER THINK WHY DO WE NEED HUMILITY?
Fair people do not need pleasure and accomplishment. In fact, they know a better time, position, and tone which they can share with the world.
Here are some examples of how to show humility:
- Telling “great match” to your opposition, rather you had won or lost.
- Say sorry after any misinterpretation.
- Also wish best for others also rather than keep everything for yourself.
- Help other people also who are not far better than you, but do not look them with the heinous eye.
- Look at other people with inspiration, not with jealousy.
- Competitive with yourself more in the place of others.
Humility is all about self- improvement. Being humble means, you can recognize your life that needs work. If your tutor or coach suggests that your current performance has something wrong, then you need to think about it deeply and improve it. Your good wisher always wants your best.
Humility is not about outer beauty but it also about inner beauty. Becoming arrogant and annoyed at failure bring struggle in existence. It’s important that we need to understand those losses that what wrong has been happened and picked up after the falls. Conceivable it sounds illogical but humbler you are more flexible you can be. If you confess and accept your tortoise you can work towards alteration it. If you join your humility with your agony in life, you will touch the cloud and conquer failure.
HERE ARE SOME STEPS FOR HOW TO DEVELOP HUMILITY
- GENERATE CONFIDENCE:
To being humble one must have high confidence. A humble person gets criticized many times by other arrogant people. They might tease a humble person by saying him a weak individual. So to still keep ourselves humble one needs a lot of confidence in himself. Confidence makes people fearless and confident. Being humble while facing an arrogant person require lot of confidence. The only mentally strong people can keep themselves humble in tough situations.
There are so many ways by which you can build your confidence just like dressed up yourself and stand in Infront of the mirror whether you go anywhere or not. Because if you be confident in front of you then only you can talk in Infront of others. If you want to learn how to be confident then you can read: How to be confident.
- BE A STUDENT ALWAYS:
Humble people know that generating queries in your mind doesn’t make you weak. Infect it makes you stronger physically and mentally. Show your coach your inclination to learn and make them see that you are doing your best. When investigating something new it takes time for comprehension to develop.
We must never think that we know it all or it is not good to ask questions because others will feel that I am dumb. We must always be eager to learn new things. If you treat yourself as a student you will develop humility. If you want to learn how to enjoy learning then you can watch this video: How to enjoy learning.
- RID OUT OF YOUR CHEER ZONE:
As our comfort zone is the best zone for working. In this zone, everyone is comfortable working and there is no need to struggle. The work has been done according to our mood. But the real fact is that if we do not struggle then how we will learn a new thing. Our life and mind will be shrunk into one place. If we shrink in one place, then how we will compete for the society. That way every day learns something new and rid out of your cheer zone.
No one is going to believe that you are a shooter if you do not step out. If you do something new it will give you self-confidence and self-development. An egoistic person always tries to win and wants to do something which makes them win. If they lose they feel bad and that is why they always try to do something which makes them cheerful and something which doesn’t hurt their ego.
If we want to become humble we must try new things and must fail and we must be fine with failing. We must come out of our comfort zone and try new things. We we fail and still, we are fine then we become humble. You can learn how to overcome the fear of failure here: How to overcome the fear of failure.
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- Always remind your goals of being humble:
If you always remind your goals it will keep you to success and keep you energetic. Every day new things come in the mind that makes us forget our goal of becoming humble.
That is why when you are doing work always remember why you are doing it, what is the aim behind it. Note down your goals in the journal.
Now, this requires a lot of self-discipline. If you want to learn how to be self-disciplined then you can read: How to be self-disciplined.
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- REFLECTING BEHAVIOUR:
If you behave adversely it will reflect on your behavior. We must always reflect on our behavior and must-see if we can improve it next time. If we have behaved arrogantly in front of anyone then we must try to improve ourselves next time. Keeping a positive mindset can put you to a different level of humility. Successful personality always maintains their journal alongside. They reflect back on how they behaved and try to improve themselves.
It’s important that we focus on our power and deficiency. It is because it reminds us of our goal and helps us to concentrate on work. When we do work it’s our duty that once a while we should think what wrong has been done, is there any lack in my work because no person in the world is fulfilled with all the things every person has something lack in it. No one is going to correct yourself rather than you. This thing only takes you to another level. This type of work will give you satisfaction and growth also.
This require lot of positivity. A positive individual can easily look at his fault and can try to improve himself. If you want to develop positive thinking then you can read: How to develop positive thinking.
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Humbleness makes you a better person and it also enriches your living of standards. Humility tells about your rite. Humility makes you a better personalty and respectable person. No one has a right to hurt you and you also don’t have a right to hurt anyone. Always give respect and take respect.
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