How To Be A Good Father:
Importance to be a Good Father:
A man can take numerous titles in his Life but being a Father is the most wonderful title he could ever achieve. At the same time, the burden of responsibilities increases on him, and also fears that what if he could not prove himself to be a good father?
A good father doesn’t mean to be perfect all the time after all we all are human. It is very important for every man to be a good human being before becoming a good father so that his children can admire you and make you their role model. And It’s a fact that if you provide a quality environment and give them good values then it will help you to give them good education and upbringing.
The children’s well-being, strength, education, attitude, and progress all depend upon how they are being treated and a good father knows how to treat his children and respect them. So, it’s really important to spend quality time with family and try to be friendly with them so that they can share their problems, happiness, and pain with you. Try to understand your children’s necessities, have fun with them, know their likes and dislikes, teach them new skills and the most important is discipline.
Here are some tips you can follow to be a Good Father:
There is no panacea treatment to be a good father but I have some tips that I want to share with you guys.
1) Know your Responsibilities:
A good father is responsible enough to provide financial as well as emotional support to his children. He provides his children with the best he can afford for them. He will never ignore if his children asking him for help because he doesn’t want his children to feel that they have no one to listen to them. He will appreciate his children when his children will do well and give them the strength to bear the failure.
2) Never Beat or Spank your children:
To improve your children, beating them is not the right way, by doing this you are fostering violence and this affects the child mentally. And gradually they reduce their respect for you. Instead of abusing his children, a good father handles them with love and care. He knows many more options which are far better than violence. Using violence is teaching children that
aggression will be the only alternative to deal with situations.
3) Build Trust with your kids:
Always be honest with your children, have the guts, tell the truth, and appreciate them to be honest. Don’t make false promises to your children it will adversely affect them. By doing this they will not feel safe sharing their secrets with you. A good father never breaks his children’s trust. If he promises something, he also fulfills it.
4) Be their Role Model:
To be your children’s role model you should follow the advice that you are expecting your children to follow. Set your goals, implement the action plan, and then achieve them, if they see you doing this then they will also get motivated to organize their things in life. These actions make them self-disciplined. And never let yourself fall into bad habits, it will destroy your children’s life and career.
5) Be a Good Listener:
Listen carefully to your family and respond to them by nodding your head or by any means. Most importantly look into their eyes while having a conversation with them. Give your complete attention so that they can feel that you are interested in listening to them. Don’t think of anything else at that time, just focus on what they are telling you. Also, don’t start criticizing in the middle of a conversation if they are saying something which you don’t agree with, and let them finish.
6) Protect your Family:
Good fathers protect their families from all the odds. He will try to remove all the obstacles in your way as much as he can. He can’t see his children in pain, unhappy, and let them face any bad experience in their life. He aware his children of the consequences of making wrong choices. . He will teach his children good lessons for life so that they become responsible adults
7) Encourage your children:
A good father encourages his children to take the right steps in their life and appreciate them. Praise them even if they do anything wrong by mistake. A lot of fathers spoil their children’s future by scolding them if they do anything wrong unintentionally and these children start doubting themselves which reduces their self-confidence. Make them believe that Yes they can overcome any situation.
8) Be Affectionate:
Make your Children feel that they are special to you and you are proud of them because your affection shapes your children’s life and mental health. Even Science believes that your affection and love for your children results in lifelong positive outcomes in their life. It will also build a good relationship between you and your children.
9) Apologise for your action:
If you raise your voice or do something that your children don’t expect from you then you should feel free to apologize and ask them to forgive you, this will bring a forgiving attitude to your children. To be frank, saying sorry to your children strengthens your bond and also makes them learn answerable for every action.
10) Family Meal is Important:
A good father eats with his family at least once a day, this brings all the family members together. Everyone shares their experiences, laugh and have healthy discussions. If you are unable to have a meal with your family due to any reason just try at least to go for an outing.
How to be a good father – Conclusion:
In the end, we conclude that to be a good father you must have a good heart, appreciate your children, support your children when they needed you the most, teach good lessons to your family, be a role model, spend quality time with family and always ready to protect his family from any situation and give unconditional love to your family. Always remember you are the most responsible member of your family.
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