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All the children work hard to make their parents feel proud of them. Regardless of which gender they are. To be a good son or daughter means to make parents feel satisfied with the sacrifices they made. Our parents sacrifice for their hobbies, their career too for us, many parents expect that the things that they have not experienced in their life their child should experience it. And from my perspective, it’s every child’s job to just give it a try what their parents want from them.
Because you never know it may lead to your destiny. Becoming a good daughter means supporting parents financially, mentally, and emotionally. The relation between the daughter and her parents is fragile. For every parent, their child is precious. When a couple is on their way to have a baby, they start loving the baby and have many plans ready for it even before it comes to this world.
For every parent, their child is the most precious gift they have ever received from God. Especially the baby girl is very priceless for them. And a daughter is the bright sunshine of her house. Becoming a good daughter is a very huge responsibility. Every parent has a dream to see their girl as an independent, self-confident, and a strong girl. So, like a good daughter that’s your duty to fulfill their dreams.
We can’t pay back the sacrifices made by our parents but at least we should try to bring a smile to their faces. However, every daughter knows the importance of efforts made by her parents.
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10 tips on how to be a good daughter.
1. SHOW LOVE:– The reason why in Indian culture, parents are considered as or visualized as a god or almighty. Both of them only need our love and compassion. Sometimes parents also feel frustrated and tired of their routine and just freak out on their children and get mad. So in such situation, just keep calm and understand their point and give warm hug so they can also feel relax and warm. Whatever is within you and the way you feel about them just try to show them.
2. DISCUSS THE PROBLEM WITH THEM:- Parents play a huge role in our lives and no one is a better eye-opener than parents. It is very much common that children feel that their parents do not understand their problems because they are from different generation. Well, I agree. Their generation is different but their experiences are and valid. Also, most importantly the love they have for us is cannot be found in any heaven if it exists in this universe.
So, discuss what you are facing or thinking and how you are feeling. In any relationship, communication is very much important to keep the bond strong and unbreakable for a long time. They are from different generation and that is why we should speak to them and make them understand and also listen to them.
Keeping quiet or maintaing a sistance from them is just going to hurt them more. Parents feel good and feel more special when their beloved daughter shares problems with them. So GO NOW. HAVE A CHAT!
3. PLAN A FAMILY VACATION:– Explore together, enjoy together, grow together. In this modern era, it has been very difficult for parents to make some enough time for family and the same for you. Because you get busy in your studies or spending time with your friends more than family.
But that’s okay. Your parents are only working for their kids. They will never be selfish with you. So, understand their responsibilities and schedules and then make a plan for family vacation. It can be just for one day. In this way, your parents will also take a break from the schedule and relax for sometime. Spending time together enhances more trust and love between all. You can try adventure sports, treking, or a small pic-nick, anything that brings relax and joy in your family life.
4. INTRODUCE YOUR FRIENDS:- Introducing your friends to your family enhances their trust on you or make them feel secured. For example, when you go out for a party with those friends, your parents will not worry because they know your frinds and that you are safe with them. This is because you are a girl and as they love you more they have more concern about your safety.
Although, it is not just about trust. Introducing your frind circle to your parents to family makes you even closer. Your parents will feel that you are feel more friendly towards to them.
5. REFRESH THE OLD MEMORIES:- It is delightful to sit beside our parents and talk with them about our childhood days, some old memories, their special moments. This creates fun environment in the family.
Let me tell you a secret!
You will get more fun and enjoy when you spend time with your family compared to being with your friends. I am suggesting you this with my personal experience.
6. RESPECT THEIR DECISION:- Our parents’ action, speech, and decision are for our good future and safety life. Every parent knows what is best for their children. If they are restricting us for certain things, then we should respect that. Remember those days, when we were kids and our parents restrict us strictly to not do things which are not safe for us.
They don’t expect that you should not enjoy your life. They just want you to live a secured life. They don’t want you to get problems or face struggles or dangers in life. There is only one reason behind their such behavior and that is LOVE.
For example, In the playground, we used to run so fast and our mom always used to yell at us to not do such things but that time we were not used to considering their concern. And when we fall then only we used to listen to their point. So the important point is when we were kids we trusted our parents totally. So when we become an adult or teenager we should respect them and their decision. Always honor their rules, Their rule is always safe and healthy for us.
7. SHARE YOUR FUTURE PLAN:- If you feel your parents do not agree with your decisions about your life, then sit with them and talk. Tell your parents about your goals in detail. Listen to their advice because no one cares about your future more than your parents.
Make them understand how beneficial is it for you and how much you will enjoy doing it. They are the only one who are going to cheer you till the end. They are the motivators, supporters, emotional and love investors.
8. SUPPORT THEM:- Not all days are happier for human beings. There are ups and downs at every stage of life. We all suffer from many problems, so do our parents. The thing is they hide it from you. Because you are theire precious daughter and they don’t want you to worry for them.
So when parents need us the most, be there to support them. Make them feel, that whatever the situation is their daughter will always stand with them and care for them.
9. CELEBRATE THEIR SPECIAL DAYS:- It means a lot to parents when their daughter remembers their birthday or anniversary. It feels like their little princess is now growing up to become a responsible adult. Make them feel special.
10.SAY “ I LOVE U”:- “ Stop bothering about the world” because in this small world your parents are your world. Never ever get embraced by how your parents behave towards you in any situation. Because in the end, they cared for you. Say I love you randomly to them and show your love towards them. It means a lot to them.
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These are some ways to become a good daughter. For parents, their children are always best but we have a few responsibilities on us to make them happy and proud. So, if we follow these ways, we will be able to inherit love and happiness in our parent’s life. The only thing or we can say ability that makes us owe so much to our parents is their unconditional love and forgiving nature towards us, especially for daughter her parents always have a soft corner in their heart.
To be a good daughter requires nothing more but to keep that soft corner safe in their heart. In India, we have a proud saying about Indian daughters that if we educate a daughter we simultaneously educate two families. A good daughter should necessarily be good at studies that will create an impact not only on her parents but also on society.
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