How to be liked by others or How to get others to like you?
Some people are very charismatic. Where ever they go they spread positive energy. Actually everyone like them and enjoy their company. If they are not around people miss them because they are the person who set the mood for whole team.
There are other set of people who are there or not there does not make any difference because either they are calm or enjoy in themselves by sitting in a corner or talking in a closed group. Even if someone talk to them they dont respond enthusiastically.
We all want to be liked and love by others. Here are the 5 ways to be a likable and lovable person:
1. First way of how to be liked is Smile :
Smile on our face. Smile is a positive energy of happiness which attract other person. So whenever we meet we must greet with a smile. Smile invite other person to come and talk to us. Smile is able to project them as approachable individual. Let say if we go to a party and if we find someone smiling then we will think that we can go and talk to him , he would look as happy and approachable individual.
We must work on intentional smile. Forcefully we must push ourselves to have a smiley face. Slowly slowly we will get a habit of smile. When ever we meet someone with smile we have a lasting impact on that individual. We look like an approachable individual to others.
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2. Second way of how to be liked by other is Greet others and be genuinely interested in other individuals
When ever we must go in social event then we must meet and greet every individual. Through greeting we will initiate the conversation.
All the people who are liked by other always have a tendency to initiate the conversation. They are genuinely interested in other individual. They start with introducing themselves and then asking other person about their profession or family.
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3. Third way of how to be liked by others is Get others to speak – talk less and encourage other to talk about themselves:
After we have done the greeting now we must encourage other to speak more because everyone want to share their story and want to talk about themselves so give them that opportunity to talk about themselves.
Always ask questions which make others to speak about themselves. Like where are you from, what do you do, who all are there in your family etc.
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4. Fourth way of how to be liked by others is Initiate the topic of other person’s Interest:
We must always initiate the topic of other person interest. If we are meeting a teacher then talk about their school, if we are meeting an IT professional then talk about their projects , if we are meeting an entrepreneur then talk about their company. The key to make a healthy conversation which make the relation bond stronger (even that relation is long term like marriage or short term like single meeting) is by talking in other person interest. By this we will treat others as they want to be treated and by that they will be happy when in the conversation with you. By this we are not undervaluing ourselves, we are just giving more importance to the relationship.
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5. Fifth way of how to be liked by others is Compliment others in between the discussion:
Try to praise other when you are in conversation with them by this we make other person feel important and special. Praising is a positive energy of proud, we must do that quite often to show how much we like them. Always remember other person name as the person’s name is the dearest word to everyone.
SO whole point is if we want to be missed when we are not there which is if we want to be likable and lovable to others then we have to be an individual who make other happy and positive. So all the point which i have explained will make other person happy and positive after having conversation with you. Because of this he would want to talk to you more and often and when ever you are not there he will miss you.
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So when ever you meet other make them happy and positive by using the ways i mentioned in this post of ” how to be liked by others” and become a likable and lovable person.
I am sure you would also have some point which i have missed. Kindly send me in the comment section and i will add them to this article.