We daily get a lot of difficult situation at home. How strong is our relationship will completely depend on how we would handle those situations. Situations like:
Have you ever scolded your kids because they broke something at home or they lost something costly or got bad grades in exams?
Have you ever got into a fight with your wife because of not cooking the food right or not managing things properly?
Have you ever got upset with your husband because of taking wrong financial decisions or not managing the house well or forget something which was really important to you?
If your family environment is getting disturbed in these rough times then you are not keeping the relationship higher than the situation.
Learn from this article how to give the relationship more important than the difficult situation !!!
Many times we give more importance to the situation than relationship!!! If someone does a mistake then we start scolding them. This happens because we think negatively about that individual that he has done a mistake so he is not good enough and then this negative thought gets mixed with energy and we react negatively.
We must understand that relationships will become strong when we think positively about another individual. If someone does a mistake we must not think that he is not good enough, we must think that what can I do so that he will not make that mistake again. This perspective will change the way we behave with our family members.
We As family members must always work on improving another individual in all ways financially, physically, mentally, and spiritually. If we think of helping our family members then we will have an awesome relationship !!!
It is common that everyone does mistake nobody is in this world who does not make mistake and through mistake, only one person learn the important lesson of life. Our thought process must be of growing our family members when they do mistake not scolding them !!! If we raise our temperature in all the mistakes done by our family members then we actually have to work on our thought process because it’s getting negative easily.
Sometimes we might have to raise our voice to make other people understand but while doing this we must say that why we are doing this. For example, let say your kids are not studying then you can say in a harsh voice but with that, you must say that you are doing this for their betterment so that they have better carrier and life and you are also not liking speaking like this. Many a time they understand only through this way.
But before doing this we must try to make them understand why studying is important and then try to offer them something they like if they do study well but still if they are not understanding then we can raise our voice. In this, our mindset is clear that we want to help them. We are not negative in our mind that our kid is not good, we have a clear positive statement that we want to grow our child !!!
Let say if someone in the family is doing a mistake again and again. This will need a higher commitment from you to fix it up. The problem could be that they don’t know how to do it right then we will have to teach them or the problem could be that they are not interested to do something which is important then we will have to make them understand the importance of it.
If they are not improving by explaining the importance then we can offer something which they like, to make them interested to do that activity and if that also not working then we can scold them. So a repeated mistake would need higher involvement to get it fixed.
We must all love our family member unconditionally that means that we must all believe that our family member can grow and you will work on growing them. Even if they do something wrong you completely believe in your family members and you will work with them so that they can improve themselves. We must say to our family members that I always want you to do what is right but regardless of what you do know that I still love you.
If we keep relationship more than difficult situation then our family will become financially healthy, we will be able to maintain our health well, we will have fun at home and we will have great relationship!!!!
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