HOW TO CARE FOR YOUR PARTNER?
You’ll find that being a friend is to like a person, for who they are, even the parts you don’t understand. You don’t have to understand, or do the same,
or live their lives for them. If you truly care for them, then you want them to be who they are; that was why you liked them in the first place.”
― Terry Good kind
How to care for your partner?? Let’s just assume you are the boy here, how can you show care to your girlfriend? Well, there are many ways in which you can make her know that you care about her. You have to be positive enough and not only that, but you should also be open-minded about everything. She loves it when you compliment her, she melts very easily when you do cute stuff.
Every relationship or bond needs the partners to be caring for each other, this makes sure that they are still in love with their partner and they want them at any point in life. It is not always that you have to grab the attention of your partner and make them feel that you are caring for them, when you genuinely care for your partner they already know it and they feel good about that.
So, to understand how to care for your partner, you should:-
1. Be direct when appropriate- Be exactly honest about how you feel about her, don’t expect her to assume that. Faking emotions can make things worse. If you check on her from time to time, she will know how much you care. Your girlfriend/wife just needs your time and attention, these two insignificant but very important things are enough for all the care she needs from her partner. Be clear with your feelings to her and so that she knows how much you mean to her and care for her.
2. Ask her about her daily doings and whereabouts- Listen to each and every single thing she has to say and avoid jumping in between when she is telling you about it, it shows that you care about her life. Be a good listener and empathize and make her feel good if she had a bad day. Small things like these ads up to a stronger relationship.
Never let her stay in a bad mood, always be there for her to make her laugh and show care for her. Asking her about what all she did the whole day will make her feel wanted and cared for by you, that somebody cares for her days and also wants to share my experience of the whole day. She may not say it directly but she always wants her boyfriend/husband to ask her regularly and know all the things going on in her life on a daily basis.
3. Do small things for her which gets to a big happy thing later on- Small things add up for good things, you should know that whenever you meet them you have to pay them a compliment, she likes it when she looks good and feels good knowing that her boyfriend/husband has noticed her.
She will be more open up to you when she gets care and attention from her partner, her love will be unstoppable if you make her feel happy by adding small components to her life. Small surprises like bringing her chocolates, complementing her from time to time, or anything she likes the most. Money can’t buy her the happiness you can give her with your care and love, every girl is hungry for a caring boyfriend/husband, and when she gets she will love you unconditionally.
4. Trust Your Girl – When your girlfriend knows that you trust her, she trusts you too, and not only that she also feels confident to be with you and will start sharing every single thing with you be it related to anybody, be it her male friends or anything. Don’t call her, again and again, to keep a check on her when she is with her friends, give her space so that she doesn’t only indulge with you and also maintain the flow.
Calling her from time to time to keep an eye on her is a very bad habit and it will surely create trust issues in a healthy relationship. Trust her when she says, “he is only a friend”, do not doubt her just because she has male friends and hangs out with them. Nobody can flirt with your girl or take her away unless she wants it herself.
5. Say I Love you – Never let her sleep without you telling her that you love her, when you say that you love her, her heart flutters and she trusts you more and knows that you care a lot about her. You will be the last thing she remembers before going to sleep and she will think of you while sleeping which will make her smile silently and make her go to bed happily.
Also, to be the first person she thinks of wish her a good morning, that text will automatically cheer her mood up, it will give a boost to her day and will have a good mood throughout the day because she has first-morning text from a person, who he feels special and close to her this will make her know of your caring nature towards her.
6. Surprise her – you can surprise her by giving unexpected gifts from which meaning can come out or you can also take her on a cute surprise date, that will show her that how much you care for her happiness.
7. Try getting interested in actives or things she likes Show your interest in hobbies or activities, she is interested in and this will surely make you know more about her. you may not be interested in shopping or girly activities but you can be with her all the time because you care for her smile and you very well know how much happy she will be if you be her partner at shopping, making her choose clothes for her. Every girl wants the extra care and pampering from her boyfriend/husband.
8. Care for her when she is not in good mood or in good health To be present for her at times when low or upset, to handle her is the best way to care for your girlfriend. If she is upset from anything try making her laugh, sitting with them, and enjoying with them. When your partner is not good at mood because of any problem be it work, career or anything, she expects the love and pampers from her partner, a partner who well knows how to handle her in tough times and make them enjoy again.
Handle her mood swings and show care for her when she is not in good health, a girl loves care from her boyfriend/husband when they are not in a good mood.
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9. Listen to her things – Listening to your girlfriend/wife when she wants to talk to you more and more is the best way to show them that you care for her and want to listen to whatever she wants to say. Girls are more of a talkative nature, they go on saying and want you to listen to it and pay attention.
Even if the topic is not interesting for you or does not attract you, still be there to listen to her because what she is telling is important to her and she wants her special person to know about everything happening in life. A good listener, in a boyfriend/husband, is the best blessing a girl can get.
10. Respect her choices or decisions for life: You have to be with her when she makes some decisions or choices, you have to support her and make her feel that she is right. Do not impose your choices on her. Treat and care for her the same way you want to be respected and treated.
The best partners are usually people who are also really good friends. If you want to know how to be a better friend click here.
‘Relationships are good when both care for each other and love each other unconditionally, the same things which imply to boyfriend, the same goes for girlfriends as well. they also need
to care for their partners and love them the same way they want to be loved’.
As we have mentioned from the boy side the same is applicable for the girl side. She also has to do all the above-mentioned things to make her husband/boyfriend happy.
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